Popular TikTok content creator, Elizabeth Amadou, widely known as Jarvis, has confirmed the end of her relationship with fellow influencer and livestreamer, Hamzat Habeeb, alias Peller, while appealing to the public to refrain from ridiculing him following his recent car accident.
Jarvis made the disclosure during a live video session on Tuesday, as reactions continued to trail Peller’s hospitalisation after a crash that occurred during a livestream on the Lekki-Epe Expressway, Lagos.
Speaking against the backdrop of intense social media commentary linking the accident to their personal lives, the influencer lamented that public mockery had only compounded an already distressing situation.
“It’s always people will mock me. Because I can see concern about this online. People will mock him, Stop mocking him. Stop shading him,” she said.
She stressed that the incident should not be weaponised to judge Peller’s personality, noting that she had never presented him as a bad person.
Jarvis explained that emotional regulation, rather than ill intent, had been a recurring challenge for Peller, adding that it was an issue requiring collective support.
“Yes, he cannot control his emotions. He cannot control. That’s the problem.
“I can control mine, but he can’t control his. We need to join hands together to help him,” she said.
Confirming that they have gone their separate ways, Jarvis clarified that the decision was not borne out of abandonment but necessity.
“Peller is a sweet guy, I do not even want it to even end but it has happened, it has happened.
“The relationship is not the thing now. It’s not saying let’s go back to who we were.
“The solution is let’s put our heads together to work on him.
“To be better. Not space of we not talking , it is space of this relationship thing. It is over for now,” the influencer said.
She further explained that the separation was intended to allow room for recovery and emotional healing.
Jarvis also called on fans and social media users to desist from spreading narratives she described as harmful and insensitive.
“Stop your shading. How is it helping? It’s not helping.
“Don’t use it against him. Encourage him. Encourage us. Help us. Stop using our pain to mock us,” she said.
Visibly emotional, she admitted that reactions online had intensified the pain surrounding the episode.
Urging the public to prioritise gratitude over blame, Jarvis noted that her foremost concern remained the wellbeing of both parties, especially in light of the near-fatal incident.
“All you people should be saying is thank God for life. Thank God for Peller. Thank God nothing happened to him.
“I love him, but for now we need to be okay. I’m not okay anymore. I want to be okay
“He needs to be okay, he needs to be fine,” Jarvis said.
She concluded by observing that the end of a relationship does not always arise from animosity, but can sometimes be a necessary step towards peace, clarity and healing.
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